#6 Gameplay Walkthrough: How to Play Carked It!

A Game about Death and Dying

Here’s our blow by blow guide to playing Carked It!

If reading is not your thing, then head over to The Ageing Revolution Youtube channel where you can watch Simon take you through how to play!! Enjoy!!

Getting Started: Set Up the Decks

Separate LIVE, DIE & BYE! cards into 3 decks and place face down.

Choose Player One: The person whose birthday is closest to Halloween (October 31st) will go first.

CarkedIt Live Card
68 LIVE cards
Carked It Bye Card
68 LIVE cards
Carked It Die Card
48 DIE cards

DIE: How are you going to cark it!?

Starting with Player 1, each player draws a DIE card: Place it face-up in front of you and share your fate with the others. This is how you die!

Would You Rather Cards: If you pick up one of these, let players know which death you prefer. Would you rather…?

Carked It card image of skeleton dancing in one half and a skeleton sleeping in the other half.

Question Mark Cards: If you pick up a question mark card tell everyone your death option using the prompt on the card.

Carked It Card with question mark with laughing teeth with the text 'Pick the Funniest Way to Die'

LIVE: Decide how you want to live your life before you Cark It!

Deal 5 LIVE cards facedown to each player.

Player 1 will choose the card that best represents what they want to do before they die.  To do this, all other players choose 1 LIVE card from their hand and place it face down on the table for Player 1.

All players then reveal their card and take turns convincing Player 1 that their choice is the best. Argue, persuade, be sensible, silly or stupendous!

Player 1 chooses their favourite LIVE card and places it to the left of their DIE card. The player who puts forward the winning card is awarded 1 point. All LIVE cards on the table that were not selected return to the bottom of the LIVE deck. Then each player draws back up to 5 LIVE cards in their hand.

Repeat until all players have chosen 2 LIVE cards.

BYE: Decide what you want to happen after you die!

Similar to LIVE, players now decide on their after-death preferences in the same way as above. Deal 5 Bye cards to each player and take turns convincing each other of the best things to do once you’ve died.

Once all players have 2 BYE cards next to their DIE card, the EULOGY WILDCARD round begins.

Carked It Eulogy Card

If a player has a EULOGY WILDCARD in their remaining BYE hand they can play it in front of them face up for a chance to earn and award bonus points.

Pick two Players to give your Eulogy.

Those two players will now go head to head to make those gathered cry -hopefully with laughter-as they spend 30 seconds orating, celebrating and honouring your memory – feel free to throw in what you really think of them! The best eulogy is awarded 2 points and the runner-up is awarded 1 point – the player who played the Eulogy card is also awarded 1 point.

The Funeral Director reveals which player earned the most points and is crowned the…

Carked It image of skull wearing legendary death doula crown

#5 Level Up: Why We Need to Talk About Death Through Games like Carked It!

The importance of Carked It! and games about death and dying

Let’s be honest—death isn’t exactly a crowd-pleaser at parties. People tend to shift uncomfortably, glance at their drinks, and mumble something about needing to go grab something to eat. But here’s the thing: death is the one storyline every character gets. No plot armour, no cheat codes. So why don’t we talk about it more?

Well, in a funny kind of way, we do. We just sneak it into places where you might not expect it—like video games, movies, TV shows, even quirky card games at the pub.

Games and entertainment have become unlikely heroes in helping us face our own mortality. Not in a grim reaper, doom-and-gloom way, but in a “Hey, let’s figure out how to deal with this mess together” kind of way.

Why Talk About Death Through Play?

Play is how humans make sense of hard things. Kids play “hospital” when someone’s sick. Adults play “let’s pretend I’ve read the terms and conditions.” Games are our sandbox for big emotions. They’re where we test out ideas, mess up, laugh at the chaos, and try again.

Talking about death through a game or film gives us emotional wiggle room. It’s one thing to say, “Let’s have a conversation about grief and loss”—and quite another to say, “Wanna play a beautifully sad indie game where you’re a spirit guide ferrying the dead to the afterlife?” (Looking at you, Spiritfarer.)

Suddenly it’s not so terrifying. It’s creative. It’s cathartic. And profound.

Death Is the Ultimate Multiplayer Experience

And the thing about death? It’s universal. Cross-cultural. Intergenerational. No subscription needed. Which is why exploring it through games can bring people together.

Families who can’t talk about death around the dinner table might connect over a film where the dog dies and everyone ugly-cries in silence. (You know the one.) Teens might engage more with questions about mortality in a co-op game than in a school assignment. Even AI is getting in on the act—playing therapist, memory-keeper, or weirdly accurate dead grandma chatbot. (That’s a different blog post.)

Entertainment invites us to play with these heavy themes before they crash into our real lives. It helps us practice goodbyes, imagine what legacy means, and sometimes just laugh at the absurdity of it all.

TL;DR?

Talking about death doesn’t have to be morbid. It can be tender, weird, messy, even funny. And games, movies, and stories are some of the safest—and smartest—places to start.

So let’s press start. Let’s play the grief levels. Let’s watch the sad movies. Let’s talk about the end, not as something to fear, but as something to understand.

Because if we’re all going to the same game over screen eventually… we might as well make the story worth telling.

#4 What About Death!? Can a card game about death actually be fun?

Carked It! – Can a card game about death actually be fun?

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EPISODE DESCRIPTION

In today’s episode, Tsultrim speaks with Simon Lowe, the creator of a fabulous card game called “Carked It!”.  Simon developed this, at times, very funny card game as a way of connecting people and opening the door to friends, family and even strangers, to talking about life, death and beyond in a light-hearted, fun, and positive way. As we all know, death is certain, but the manner and time of our death is uncertain. But this lovely card game will surprise and undoubtedly ease you gently and with lots of humour, into the important conversations that we all need to have about the inevitability of our death, the importance of life and to ensure we prepare well for both…..before it’s too late.

Learn more about Carked It! here: https://carkedit.com Learn more about Simon’s work with the Good Death Impact Network, The Ageing Revolution and PikMe.

This episode of What About Death!? is hosted by Tsultrim and edited by Shannon Callander. Special thanks to Werner Mathiuet and the whole Karuna team.

Brought to you by karuna.org.auFollow What About Death!? on social media: @whataboutdeathpodcast

Our music is Bling Heights by Ahjay Stelino.

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